This time of year there is practically a new baby born every morning! Calving season is underway. Husband is going to bed checking cows and waking up checking for babies. Who doesn’t like waking up to a new baby every morning?
Life has been busy and lots of things have changed for us. My creative side has been just about buried and when I finally “hear” something to write about, I just can’t find the time or energy. I was honestly considering closing the blog site down. What even is there new to write about anymore? I’ve written on just about everything on the farm and who is even reading this anymore?
Love Her Well is a great book written by Kari Kampakis. Although written with parenting the teenage daughter in mind, this book is chock full of parenting wisdom for both boys and girls. The author writes from the experience of raising 4 daughters.
The subtitle of the book is “10 ways to find joy and connection with your teenage daughter.” Each of the 10 chapters focuses on one of these 10 ways. But Kari goes even further and includes many lists and lots of research to back up each of these topics. For example, in the chapter “Choose Your Words (and Timing) Carefully”, the author gives an additional list of 35 Ways to Speak Life to a Teenager. This is great information whether you are parenting a girl or a boy; also helpful for youth leaders and anyone who is working with or impacting teens.
Each chapter is filled with revelation from God’s Word to make the writer’s point and each ends with Reflection Questions for life application and meditation.
One of my favorite points is from the chapter titled “Be Her Mom.” We are called to be the parent, not the friend and sometimes that is hard. In the list of 20 Ways to Prepare Your Daughter for the Road, number 2 on the list is one of my favorites. I am a proponent of spiritual discernment. I feel strongly that not only Christians, but especially Christian parents should operate in the gift of discernment.
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This is why this item stuck out to me so vividly. “Talk about 5 second decisions.” There will be many times that not only as parents, but our teens will need to make those split second decisions. There isn’t time for fasting and prayer. There is no way you can phone a friend for wise counsel. You have to have discernment and know what God is saying on the matter quickly! Our teens and us need that more now than ever before. We have to be talking to them on a regular basis about these things and teaching them to hear the voice of God.
My teen daughter is now 18 and our last, and youngest child is 16 and the days of being able to influence and imprint on them are quickly passing. But now, more than ever, our kids need us to love them and parent them wisely and spiritually. This book emphasizes just that!
I would like to dedicate this blog post and book review in loving memory of my mother-in-law, Sandra Ellison. She passed away due to Covid-19 on Thursday, August 20th, 2020. She didn’t read this book, but she could’ve written it. She was a godly woman who raised her children to follow Him with their whole heart. She taught me many things and I am thankful for the mother that she was. She loved her children well. I have the husband that I have today because of her. May we all be remembered for our Kingdom work in our own families and in the lives of others as she is!
Spring has sprung in south Mississippi! You know what that means? It means an occasional cool morning, and if you are lucky, a pleasant day with the remainder of the days ushering summer in as fast as it can!
But the other thing is means, is lots of new growth. A few weeks ago, I had a week off from work and was able to go out and turkey hunt with husband. I had plenty of opportunity and even missed one. That was a sad day because mom doesn’t miss much!
But while we were sitting in the edge of the woods, calling the turkey and waiting, I noticed a young tree growing as it laid across my boot. I was completely drawn to how clearly I could see the new growth on the plant. The more I thought about that new growth, the more I saw spring’s new growth everywhere! Spring has definitely sprung!
